1/5
(1/2) This place is disgustingly lacking in empathy, understanding & mental health illness identification; my appointment there today, reminded me why I’m no longer a patient at the surgery.
I’m a new mum, my baby is 6 days old & needed feeding prior to my appointment. Unfortunately this meant I was approximately 7 minutes late to my appointment; when I tried to use the self check in system, it stated it couldn’t check me in as I was ‘too late’ for my appointment. I then stood in a queue to check in with the only receptionist working at the desk, for about 5 minutes; I received a text message whilst stood in the queue advising me that I’d failed to attend my appointment!
Clinician refused to see me for that appointment, and rebooked the appointment for an hour later. An hour later, the same thing happened again, so I spent 10 minutes on hold prior to my appointment to let them know I was going to be late again, as I was feeding my newborn. At 6 days PP I uncomfortably squeezed myself into the back of the car, between 2 car seats to finish feeding my screaming newborn, so I wouldn’t be as late to that appointment. I was approx 5 minutes late, & arrived feeling incredibly distressed and very emotional.
Tried to discuss with the clinician how the whole situation had made me feel, how I felt the surgery had caused me, my newborn & husband, complete undue distress by not seeing me in the first place …..he responded by saying “I’ll stop you there, it was me, not the surgery”, then continued to lecture me on how he had been inconvenienced because I was late for my appointment & how he’d called me 3 times at my first appointment & for my 2nd appointment. I tried to explain that I’d been feeding my newborn both times, which he wasn’t particularly interested in, I tried to explain how the self check in wouldn’t check me in & how I’d stood in the queue for at least 5 minutes to check in…..I didn’t even get to the part where I squished myself into the backseat to finish feeding my newborn because at every opportunity he got, he reminded me that I was the one who was late ! He further told me I had an attitude & if it carried on he wouldn’t continue the consultation! Then proceeded to tell me I had 5 minutes of my appointment left & if I wanted to be seen today, I needed to just get on with it!
I was left in tears throughout the whole appointment, which he wasn’t particularly interested in. When I asked if he was going to apologise for the way he was treating me, he said he didn’t think he had anything to apologise for because I was the one late for the appointment! Yes, clinically he met my needs by checking me over, sending a lab sample & prescribing antibiotics, but holistically, his care was completely devoid of understanding or empathy for a vulnerable woman who’d given birth not even a week ago!
Reception team no better. Tried to complain, they told me to fill in a feedback form (shouldn’t have to explain as a new mum that I don’t have the energy or mental capacity to do that right now), so I told them to log it for me. Halfway through doing so, a random woman who didn’t bother to introduce herself, told me to go down to the bottom window to discuss the issue. Proceeded to tell me I was ‘shouting’ & they wouldn’t tolerate it….I naturally have a very loud voice, & she would have known if I was ‘shouting’ at her; She simply disliked the way I was being authoritative & firm with them as an advocate for my own health & wellbeing. I asked her if she thought the level of care I’d received today was acceptable, & she “refused to comment on the situation” & if I wanted an apology from the clinician or the surgery, I had to log it in a feedback form (despite me repeating the fact I don’t have the capacity for that right now!) .